no choices for us to who we want to be......

"take it or just leave it........."

recently, i read lotta of blogs....and i agree with some of the blogger statement....we have no choice to choose what we wanna to be.....such as you can't choose whether you want to be a boy or a girl...you're born to be either a boy or a girl....this had be fated.....did you think there's someone or the God will ask whether you willing to be a girl or a boy, did there any choices for you?.......the answer is no....if there's is a choice...all people can choose who they want to be, then all will become perfect cause they go through their lifes with their choices and lives with what they wish to have....but because of no choices then a lot problem occured....like female who want to turn into male and become a tomboy, male who want to be female and turn into shemale.....

in our real lifes not everything can just go on swimmingly....there must be some obstacles waiting for us to go through, from there we learn a lessons and learn to stand up where we fell......so, people said that lifes are full of challenges....you have to learn how to manage it and also how to go through it with full of meaning and make it more "colourful".....

if there's is a choice for you in your life, what would you like to choose to be?
(ask yourself deep into your heart)

i saw a lot people that surrond me facing different problems.....relationships, friendships, facing study stress, financial, family and so so on.....relationship problems occured a lot in homosexual, heterosexual and this also lead to family problems......a lot gays and lesbians facing family problems like parents can't face the truth and can't even perceive them...but for heterosexual, problems occured in parents not so satisfied on their half and state there's too early for them to dates and all kind of things.......

can parents walking in our shoes? think about what your childrens want and they wish to have? is they become a gay or a lesbian is what they choose to be? just like who born in a rich and poor family, did they choose to born in a rich or poor family? if can choose, why don't all of you choose to be in rich family and why some of them choose to be in poor family? i oso wish i could have a perfect family, rich enough and also blissful enough!

parents should think about your childrens feelings, and not grabed their happiness and shape them to become a good daughter or son that you wish to have......it's unfair....although it is too difficult to you to accept it in a sudden, why don't you try to take your time and try to suit yourself and try to communicate with your child as don't made them felt like they done a wrong decision to tell out the truths.....you should open wide your arms to perceive what they are and not what others people's view on you......and be happy that you're still living as a family and they still remains of one part of your family.....we must learn to accept new things in our life....and they don't have any opportunity to "choose" what they want to be.....remember no one can choose to be a boy or a girl, to be a richman or a poorman and also be a gay or a lesbian......you should happy if they shared the truths with you due to the mutual trust from both of you and not lie to you till the day you are not longer exist in this world....if they willing tell the truths means they've brave enough and sure that you can accept it and you're trustable to that person.....

think about it......

p/s:gay and les is not a sin, they're human being too....why can't view them as usual and treat them equally?